Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Building a Character Since the Early Childhood Education

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Building a Character Since the Early Childhood Education

Building a Character Since the Early Childhood Education
My friend, if I am asked when's the right time to determine the success and the success of a person? So, the answer is still at an early age. Really? Well I want to share a fact that has been widely studied by researchers of the world.

At the early age of 0-6 years, the brain develops very rapidly up to 80 percent. At the age of brains receive and absorb various kinds of information, do not look good and the bad. That period is when the child's physical, mental and spiritual, the child will begin to form. Because of this, many who call this period as the golden times of the child (golden age).


A study conducted by an expert on child development and behavior of Americans named Brazelton says that the experience of children in the first year of life and determine whether the child will be able to face challenges in life and whether he will show great enthusiasm to learn and succeed in the workplace.

Now, therefore, we as parents should take advantage of the golden child to give the character a good education for children. So that children can achieve success and success in life in the future. We as parents sometimes do not realize, our attitude to the child it will drop the child. For example, with the hit, giving pressure which in turn makes the child's negative attitude, low self-esteem or self-conscious, timid and not daring to take risks, which in the end the characters will be brought to an adult. Such characters as adults will become an obstacle for him to achieve and fulfill his desire. For example, can not become a public speaker because he was insecure or embarrassed. Not willing to take certain opportunities because he did not want to take the risk and fear of failure. In fact, if he is to be positive, the risk can be altered as a challenge to achieve success. You agree not it?


Many say our success is determined by how genius our brain. Increasingly, the more successful we are geniuses. The more we won the class championship title in a row, then the more successful we are. Is this true? Wait wait!

I personally disagree with these assumptions. Facts prove, a lot of successful people just do not get a good achievement in school, they do not get a champion or a top position in the school. Why is that? Because the real success is not only determined by our intelligence alone. But the success was more dominant is determined by our ability to bring up an emotional connection with yourself, others and the environment. Moreover, that should not be left out is our spiritual relationship with God Almighty.

Did you know that the ability to build relationships with the three pillars (self, social, and God) are the characters who have successful people. And, let me tell you that the character is not entirely innate. Such characters can be formed. Wow, really? I say Yes! And at an early age children was formed the characters. As we discussed earlier, that early childhood is the character development of physical, mental and spiritual child begins to form. At this early age, a child's character will be formed from the results of the study and absorb our behavior as parents and from the surrounding environment. In this age of mental developments take place very quickly. At that age children are very sensitive and insensitive to learn and practice the things he sees, feels and listens from the environment. Therefore, the positive environment will shape the character of a positive and successful.


Then, how to build the character of children from an early age?
Character will be formed as a result of a definite understanding of the three experienced every human being (relationship triangle), the relationship with oneself (intrapersonal), with the environment (social relationships and environment), and the relationship with the Almighty God (spiritual). Each of the association will provide interpretation / understanding that eventually became the child values ​​and beliefs. How children understand the shape of that relationship will determine how the world treats children. Understanding will negatively impact on the treatment of negative and positive understanding of the world will treat positively. To that end, Grow a positive understanding in children from an early age, one way to provide confidence in children to make decisions for themselves, directing their potential to help children once they are better able to explore by itself, does not suppress either directly or subtly , and so on. Familiarize children to socialize and interact with their surroundings. Remember the choices on the environment largely determines the character formation of children. As the saying goes along with the seller will come scented perfume, along with the fishmonger will go amis. Something like that, good and healthy environment will foster a healthy and good character, and vice versa. And that can not be overlooked is building a spiritual relationship with God Almighty. Spiritual relationship with God Almighty awakened through the implementation and appreciation of worship ritual implemented in social life.

Well, now we understand why the building of character education of children from an early age is important. Early age is the age of gold, then take advantage of the golden age was the best.


Building a Character Since the Early Childhood Education

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